Sister demanding Money and more. Am I wrong for refusing to give her money?
1st, She is demanding money on a monthly basis(I have no kids with her) we’ve been a 2years relationship an now we live apart. She in Texas and Im in Hawaii. I told her that April 09, is our year to get engage but she feels that I dont do nuff for her now, like pay for her hair, nails and spas. I have never did this before unless its was her birthday or a special day in the year(Holidays). I have purchased a few items such Diamond earings, Necklace and Watch. All over a 2year period. But, Im still not doing enough. Lately, I purchased a battery for her car and two months of carwashes. I dont mind helping out on certain things but her nails/hair/clothes I feel its her job to handle those items. I do send her a few shirts but I dont like trying to guess what she like in clothes. Finally, she says she wants a 8-10k ring(I’m in the military) and then she wants a 4-5k wedding band. That shit is crazy, i cant afford it an she knows this. I know she is into the material objects and what other people are saying about what she is wearing. I do Love Her alot but now Im feeling that its a Love loss!! Please Sister, give a Black Man some sound advice. Im very open minded and I take comments well as long as its specific and not just B.S. Thank u, J.
She is not my sister. I agree with you about telling her, ive done it. Should I walk away? Fight for her an give in?
Ok she is NOT my Sister, she is a Black Woman.
Leave her after 2years of work? I agree thats its a uphill battle but al of my Brothers are running. Im trying to stay an work thru it
Lose the gold-digging broad and put your money into further education. You’ll gain a lot more that way, including a better chance of finding a better choice to marry.
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November 30 2008 08:51 pm | spa hawaii
September 15th, 2008 at 11:23 pm
Wait, you’re engaged to your sister?
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September 15th, 2008 at 11:24 pm
No, make her run laps for it if anything. If she is demanding it slap her and tell her never to sass you like that again.
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September 15th, 2008 at 11:26 pm
OHHHHH. Sister. As in Strong Black Woman.
Ok, if she's demanding too much from you, you need to let her know. Any material girl can be reasoned with. Tell her that you can't afford certain things and that she needs to start helping out. Either that or she'll have to find a new man. She'll realize what she's about to lose and lighten up.
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September 15th, 2008 at 11:29 pm
Do not marry this woman. You will spend your time breaking your back to buy her stuff and it will never be enough. And she will never stop telling you it isn't enough. The longer you stay with her, the broker and sadder you'll be. Not married? No kids? Hello, door. Lose her now, while there's still time.
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September 15th, 2008 at 11:30 pm
“what other people are saying about what she is wearing.”
LMFAO
Oh, so she is worried about what other people say about what she is wearing but she’s NOT worried about what people think that she in engaged to her own brother?
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September 15th, 2008 at 11:32 pm
you had a strong connection with your sister?? as in wanting to go out with her???!!!!!!!
and i think you should stop seeing her because if she really loved you then she wouldn't need any of these diamonds and jewels etc….!!!
you'll prob. find the right girl for you that really loves you and doesn't care if you have no money or not the best thing in marrige is truly being in love and do you think you can have true love with her!!??
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September 15th, 2008 at 11:34 pm
Lose the gold-digging broad and put your money into further education. You’ll gain a lot more that way, including a better chance of finding a better choice to marry.
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